So last month uni started again (online classes!) and my brain, for obvious reasons, could not handle reading anything because my schoolwork left it with zero processing power to spare. I’d sit down to read and my brain would just be like ” . . . . . . ” and then I’d be like ok i guess we’re not reading anything today… BUT THEN–but then I read Get a Life, Chloe Brown by Talia Hibbert and it Changed Everything. I’ve always dabbled in the romance genre by reading the occasional romance here and there but had never really properly delved into it. But I LOVED Get a Life, Chloe Brown SO MUCH and after finishing it I was like I CAN’T BELIEVE I’VE BEEN MISSING OUT ON THIS FOR MY WHOLE READING LIFE. So then I of course added Talia Hibbert’s entire body of work to my TBR, read a lot of it, and then moved on to explore a bunch more romances as well.

Here are the romances that I’ve read last month:

– Get a Life, Chloe Brown by Talia Hibbert (4 stars)
– Take a Hint, Dani Brown by Talia Hibbert (4 stars)
Act Your Age, Eve Brown by Talia Hibbert (my favourite of the three; I ADORED this one) (4.5 stars)
You Deserve Each Other by Sarah Hogle (4 stars) (this was TOP TIER romance)

THE NON-FAVOURITES (for lack of a better term)
The Kiss Quotient by Helen Hoang (3.5 stars)
– Damaged Goods by Talia Hibbert (3.5 stars)
A Girl Like Her by Talia Hibbert (3.5 stars)
The Bride Test by Helen Hoang (2 stars)
The Bromance Book Club by Lyssa Kay Adams (2 stars)

That being said, I wanted to write this post and talk about some of the joys of reading romance, because it’s just such a joyful genre. there are so many things I loved–and continue to love–about romances and I wanted to use this post as a way to kind of think about what makes them so compelling to me (though I’m sure I’m not the first one to talk about this).

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#1: fast to read

romances go by SO QUICKLY. when I knew my next read was gonna be a romance I’d start reading at like 6pm knowing that I would 100% have finished the book by midnight. even if the romance I was reading was on the longer side, I would still just read it all in one go. because romances aren’t just fast to read, they’re also such COMPULSIVE reads. you kind of know what plot beats to expect (characters meet, spend time, start to like each other, etc.) that you just can’t wait to get to them and see how they’re gonna unfold. so even if the romance was long or it was 1am and I needed to go to sleep I just didn’t care šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø if i was enjoying the romance then nothing could stop me until I finished it.

#2: always character-focused

romances are, by design, built on character development. a romance will ALWAYS focus on the people in the romantic relationship and their relationship, so you will (assuming this is a well-written romance) never have to slog through boring plot to get to the character focused bits. and because romances emphasize character, they by extension emphasize growth and introspection and relationships. and I LOVE IT.

#3: the banter/dialogue

related to #2: because romances are so character focused, they get to have A LOT OF DIALOGUE. for characters to get to know each they have to TALK, so you can always expect romances (at least the good ones) to have great dialogue (funny, moving, sincere, etc.). and I LOVE dialogue. it’s always what my eyes move to when I’m reading anything, and it helps establish characters so effectively. if the characters in a romance have chemistry, then the dialogue will always be top notch.

#4: the ROMANCE

not exactly insightful but: i love the romance part of romances!! I’m the kind of person who LOVES romance in whatever content I’m consuming (shows, movies, books, etc.) and am always impatient to get the plot stuff over with so we can focus on the romance (if there is a romance involved and I’m invested) so the fact that I just get to have a whole book focused on the romance and the characters involved in it has completely Changed the Game for me

#5: the tropes!

omg TROPES!!! enemies to lovers! oh no there’s only one bed! forced proximity! fake dating! protagonist needs to do something that only the love interest can help them with! it’s so much fun when you’re reading a romance and a trope pops up and you just KNOW it’s gonna be a great time seeing it all unfold šŸ‘€

#6: the guaranteed happy ending

this one speaks for itself. happy endings are wonderful, especially now during these not-so-happy times.

#7: the different character dynamics

grumpy character with cheerful character! hardass character with chaotic character! quiet/shy character with loud/bubbly character! there are so many different dynamics that romances can have and I love seeing how different authors put their own spin on them and give their characters nuance within them.

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I loved reading romance this last month so much and I can’t wait to find more romance favourites (there are a bunch I’ve got my eyes on that release in the next few months as well as next year…)!!

If you read romance, let me know what you love about it and what your favourite romances are!! if you don’t, I’d love to hear why!! As you can see from this post, I am a Changed Woman re: romances, so I’m really interested to hear what yall think of romance as a genre šŸ˜Š

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11 thoughts on “THE JOYS OF READING ROMANCE (discussion)

  1. I love reading romance too, and you picked out some really great and popular authors, but have you read any books by Christina Lauren or KA Tucker yet? And BEACH READ by Emily Henry was a hugely popular book this year. Also I LOVED The Flatshare by Beth O’Leary. Have you checked out the books by Abby Jimnez yet?

    lol – I could probably give you 50 more names and books to check out……

    ~ Corina |

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    1. thank you!! ive read and really enjoyed Beach Read (I cant wait for Emily Henry’s next 2021 romance!! it sounds amazing) but I havent read anything by Beth O’Leary, KA Tucker, or Christina Lauren! I’ve heard wonderful things about Christina Lauren especially, so Ill definitely look into their backlist – thanks so much for your recs!! šŸ˜Š


  2. YES I love romance and feel the exact same way! I’ve been having the hardest time concentrating lately and romance is easier to read than literary fiction so I’ve been reading more romance than usual! Talia Hibbert’s books are on my TBR. I LOVE this post Fatma!

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    1. thank you so much Hannah!! šŸ„° i feel like i discounted romance as a genre before and now that ive properly gotten into it i love it so much – the fact that its easy to read is such a big factor in why i love to read them too!! and Talia Hibbert’s books are FANTASTIC. you’re going to love them šŸ‘Œ


  3. The banter is always top-notch in romances!! I like to sprinkle one in every now and again when I know I’m going to have long stretches of time to read, like if I’m going on a trip or have a long weekend with no plans.

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  4. Romance books are amazing!! I never really read them until last year, and I still don’t read a ton, but every time I pick one up, it’s such a nice breath of fresh air šŸ˜Š The Brown Sisters books are definitely among my favorites (can’t wait to read Eve Brown!!)

    I completely agree that they’re so delightfully readable and hard to put down once you’ve started. And I LOVE when there’s great banter (again, Talia Hibbert is at the top of this game). And yep, it’s really lovely to be able to pick up a book and KNOW that there will be a happy ending, and that the characters will get everything they want.

    My favorite romance is Red White and Royal Blue, which was also coincidentally the first romance I ever read. It’s gonna be hard to top that one!

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    1. YES ROMANCE BOOKS!! haha im so excited that people are as excited about romance books as i am!! its quickly become one of my fav/go-to genres šŸ‘ŒšŸ’–

      Talia Hibbert is *THE* romance author for me – i will read anything she writes and I trust her so much!! Also I CANT WAIT for Casey McQuiston’s new book (I know you’ve read and loved it so I’m hoping i love it as well šŸ‘€)


  5. I love how you’ve found the common elements in the genre, I love the excitement you generate here, once you focus on something you get lead to the best by recommendations. It’s not a genre I read but I love hearing about it! I have ready budding who only reads happy ending romances and she’s one of the happiest, bubbliest people I know, so maybe it’s also good medicine for the soul. šŸ’•

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    1. thank you!! šŸ˜Š its such a delightful genre to read, i gravitate towards it every time im feeling low, so i totally get why your reading buddies would be bubbly haha šŸ˜Š


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